Sex and guilty feelings

Why do you feel guilty if you have a relation with two men while your partner simply thinks it is normal to compensate with third parties for full enjoyment and fulfillment?

Sometimes free people, particularly female, are bound from guilty feelings towards the idea of exclusivity itself, with no real reason to be bound in practice.

Exclusivity is a social need more than an individual one. Individual needs challenges and variety to keep really healthy. Statistics shout it out every day. To have exclusivity granted in relationships, “society” should grant, for instance, long term jobs, houses and credit as it did up to 10 years ago. Within a variable society and, economy, relations needs to be flexible and variable to support individuals.

I would suggest to be safe and choose a professional for extra relations, not to compromise with a “woman in love”, so that the primary relation won’t be affected. This is part of the job. Confidentiality and safety, for unforgettable secret escapes.

Wellness, Writing and Photography

“Perch non so scegliere tra il mio amante e il mio fidanzato” si intitola un articolo di oggi sul

Corriere.

Che sorridere, sembra inventata ad arte per le letture estive fra montagne ed ombrelloni, in cui trovano spazio le emozioni.

Due persone accompagnate con una relazione segreta fra loro, solo che la donna si chiede se “lei la cattiva”, l”uomo no.

La donna ha il senso di colpa verso un fidanzato, mentre l’uomo non ce l’ha verso la moglie. Una mentalit da senso di colpa che indica che ancora non c’ consapevolezza emotiva e parit dei sessi nemmeno nei sentimenti.

Cara Signora, non c’ nulla che non vada in lei. La vita lunga e irregimentata in regole che servono a mantenere la stabilit sociale, di cui le relazioni personali, il matrimonio in Primis, sono la base.

La monogamia funzionale a chi vuole o ha bisogno di una vita fatta di…

View original post 96 more words

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

w

Connecting to %s